BDSM · Love and Relationships

How BDSM Improved My Marriage

I’ve loved my husband practically since the day we were formally introduced. It wasn’t love at first sight. Maybe the second. I’d like to take this moment to go on a slight tangent about the beginning of my relationship with Master. The first time I saw him, I was holding the door to my dorm… Continue reading How BDSM Improved My Marriage

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Our Bed vs. Master’s Bed

Having been married for over four years now, and having lived together for about 18 months before that, AND having slept next to each other more often than not for the last seven out of the eight years we’ve been together, Master and I have pretty much always had “our” bed. But when we began… Continue reading Our Bed vs. Master’s Bed

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Bondage – An Unforgettable Experience with Rope

Master did me the huge favor of going to Home Depot all by himself (with the kids) and picking up some rope without my having to tag along in the monolithic temple of boredom. It took us a few weeks to get to actually using it, but here’s how it went. It was quiet in… Continue reading Bondage – An Unforgettable Experience with Rope

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BDSM Stereotypes and Rape Culture

I have mentioned before in passing that I consider myself a feminist. In the context of BDSM, I feel that a person’s sexuality is their own business and no one else’s. No matter the gender, sex, sexuality of the person. This post is not about the REAL Dominants who feel honored by the control their… Continue reading BDSM Stereotypes and Rape Culture

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My First MAJOR Punishment

Master has always been hesitant to engage in this aspect of power exchange. He doesn’t set a whole lot of rules, and the ones he does are easy enough to follow. Ok, just don’t wear pants in the bedroom when we’re about to go into a scene. Alright, just hold still and be quiet during… Continue reading My First MAJOR Punishment